Three Good Thoughts - September Posts

1) You are beautiful 

Something I have spent fretting over a lot in my life is my looks. I was worried that my hair was too curly, or that I gained too much weight or that I lost too much weight, that I don't suit red lipstick or that I cannot do eye shadow. Something that I learned a little later that I would have liked to learn is that you are beautiful no matter what you look like. As long as you are happy with yourself, that is good enough for me. And if there is something that you are unhappy about, do not be afraid to change it. Tired of that blonde hair? Dye it red.

So long that you are not changing yourself to please somebody else, because you will only end up making your self feel worse about you. The best thing that I have done is not worry about how I look, and I would recommend you give it a go for a day, you will feel how much happier you are without worrying about how you look!

2) Nobody Cares

This sounds like a brutal remark, but I mean this in the best way. You have lipstick on your teeth? Nobody cares. Your winged eyeliner is uneven? Nobody cares. You woke up with a spot on your nose? Guess what? Nobody Cares.

If people like you and want to hang out with you, they really won't care about that dodgy haircut that you gave yourself the other night. They will want to hang out with you for the person you are. And when you answer to door with no makeup on and in your pajamas to the pizza man delivering you your dominoes. Guess what, he also doesn't care about what you look like. 

I've wasted so much of my life worried that people would judge me, but the best thing I have ever done is come to the realisation that people really don't care about these things!

3) Things will always get better

The amount of times I've thought I was stuck in a really bad situation, and things have always turned out right eventually, you just need to give it time. I remember being at a really low point where I thought that things would not be better,but just a couple of months later, I was the happiest I had ever been. 

That's it for today, be sure to check back for tomorrows post!